I went out on a Saturday night for the first time in about 4
months. It was pretty exciting. I got half dressed. Well I was completely covered but the thing
is… I showered, shaved, did my hair, makeup and then got a cute top on. All the while I had leggings and flip flops
on while I undertook this ritual… well not for the showering bit, for that I
was in the nude… scandalous. So I get my
top on and then I sort of thought, well I am ever so comfortable, well I didn't think exactly that because my interior monologue doesn't have an odd British
child’s way of saying things, but you get the drift. SO I just decided to say in said leggings and
flip flops. It was, from the waist
down, sort of a mullet of clothing one
might say.
I’m not really defending myself. I think it’s terrible. Besides my wonderful posterior, I really have
no redeeming argument for wearing leggings, at 28, at a very nice bar. Except for that it was either stay short and
comfortable, frolicking heel-less throughout Davis Square, or wear nice bottoms
that are not the most comfy and heels that I would start complaining about
within 2 hours. SO there’s that, but
that wasn’t really my point…
Ok so the first part of this post is really pointless. Let’s pretend that it lays the foundation
with some colorful commentary for the real point at hand: my continuing insane,
ridiculous dating life which has been on hold since May. So the point I guess, is that I think I may
have been entertaining the idea that things might just work out in some
laughable way that makes little sense, but is for the best in the end. But think about it. When does the exact opposite of what should,
or is likely to happen, happens and then is in fact the reality that should
have existed this whole time? Never, never
ever. Because this only happens in the
movies where Hugh Grant plays a perpetual 37 year old bachelor struggling to
gain a grasp on commitment and responsibility and then realizes at the most
inopportune time that he is in fact in love with some daft cow (again British
here) and runs to tell her how he feels.
The harsh, bad lighting reality of life is that Hugh Grant
is in fact in his 50s and siring half Asian babies with a woman he isn’t
actually with, and that his actual persona is not at all dissimilar from the
limp haired fool he plays in the movies.
That’s the bitch of it all isn’t it?
Even the fucking actors in the orm coms can’t get the romantic, last
ditch, light bulb moment, realization type love in their real lives. They’re at home eating bad Thai food and
watching re-runs of Friends too!
I was talking with my friend Alli, joking about things as we
do and I may take things farther than they need be taken, and I said we
shouldn’t joke about any scenario because what if that scenario happens, because
if life were some Nicholas Sparks romantic love fest, I would be in a
completely different situation. I would
also be some chick with small town roots trying to out run my past but end up
running into the arms of the man I never expected find… I just literally bull
shitted that but how many people would eat that up?
However, I am not some small town girl, and I’m not looking
for someone’s arms to run into, mostly because I find that premise a little
paternalistic and thus kind of creepy, but it would be nice to have a little
more romance in the comedy that is my life.
I do believe that everything happens for a reason, but I am oblivious
and would need Channing Tatum or Ryan Gosling to throw down first, because as
we know, I cannot take a hint. Plus I
also feel like I would need a lot less subtle Danny Elfman musical vignettes to
bring the underlying feelings to the surface if Ryan Gosling was all, “Hey girl”
to me.
I also cannot attempt any bad Match.com dates. I just want to eat sharp cheddar, drink dry
Rose, go for walks in the woods, talk to dogs, and have some guy to debrief all
of that with. Not really much to ask
for. Also, instead musing it up here, I
should be working now. I always feel
like I should be working because there is so much to do and it’s exciting and
scary sometimes and really cool in general, but I need someone to distract me
from it occasionally. In return, I will
bake you cookies and tell you where the Ark of the Covenant is so we could bond
over an Indiana Jones’ style adventure… pretty sweet right!?
Anyway, Josephine and I are going to sign off for the night
but we are going to make more of an effort when it comes to personal life type
things because life isn’t a romantic comedy… and I am really not that confident
when it comes to Josie’s ability to fight off a pack of hungry cats from eating
me alive in my spinsterhood.
#rationalfears
Unsolicited advice: Write that on your match.com/okcupid profile. I would certainly at least think about responding to this:
ReplyDelete"I want to eat sharp cheddar, drink dry Rose, go for walks in the woods, talk to dogs, and have someone to accompany me in said activities. Is that you? In return, I will bake you cookies and tell you where the Ark of the Covenant is so we can bond over an Indiana Jones-style adventure… pretty sweet right!?"